姵如@家

Era Baru Construction Works need Personnel ass handle admin n full set account

Contact Mr Chong at 019-2197112, Ms Ester 016-2223898

星期三那天我妈妈又进医院了，同样的问题同样的病，还好今天出院了！看到她好像很辛苦似的。。。。叫她喝夺点水，她又说好像有东西顶着，不要喝水！没变阿。。。。不喝水不行阿。。。。。。。。

Frens’ Kopitiam ( 友茶餐室) opeing 26/10/08

111, Jalan S2 D32, City Centre, Seremban 2, 70300 Seremban, Negeri Semilan.

 

We selling KOK ZAI MEE FAN KUEH, mee tepung, bird nest mi hun, soya mee, yi mee, fish ball noodle , laksa (祖传角仔面粉糕，面粉糕，燕窝米粉 , 豆签 , 伊面，鱼丸粉，LAKSA)

Welcome and try it...SEREMBAN FRIENDS... thanks!

 

角仔面粉糕，面粉糕，燕窝米粉,豆签going to start a NEW STALL at MORNING ...1/10/08 at lobak , near to RESTORAN FIREWORKZ...welcome and try it...SEREMBAN FRIENDS... thanks!

结婚礼俗

结婚是人生大事, 虽然时代进步, 思想越来越开通了, 然而, 家中的长辈都会按照本身籍贯的习俗, 礼仪来进行, 才感得圆满, 有意义, 并且得体, 而且也不致引起左邻右舍的笑话哩! 然而生长在现代化的父母亲, 许多都对礼仪缺乏认识, 为了能使子女的婚姻大事进行得有头有尾，有 板有眼，尤其是能照着本身的籍贯礼仪来进行 ，因而特地聘请大妗主持大局。 以下描述的礼俗普遍常见于东南亚一带。它们 已从原来的形式演变成简化又经过改良，以顺 应时代和生活方式的变革。究竟整个过程是怎 样的呢？让我们来看一下吧!

三书: [一] 聘书 [二] 礼书 [三] 迎书

六礼: [一] 纳采 [二] 问名 [三] 纳吉 [四] 纳征 [五] 请期 [六] 亲迎 三书

六礼的传统婚嫁程序, 部分已不适应现代生活节奏, 但"大礼"及"嫁妆"始终未被淘汰, 是因为这两项仪式, 代表了新人对家长的尊敬, 及家长对新人的疼爱, 故不应敷衍了事.

择吉(择日)

婚期的决定, 确是一件大事, 通常都要请教择日专家用三元择日和黄历通书 挑选一个诸事皆宜的黄道吉日, 由男方先挑选二个不同的吉日, 征求女方同意, 考虑因素多为: [一] 家中近日内有没有凶丧之事; [二] 重要人物是否到场; [三] 生理状况是否适合. 年庚: 即出生年, 月, 日, 时八字: 即出生日期的年, 月, 日, 时各配以天干地支, 每项两字, 依次排列成八个字. 合八字: 男女双方的生辰八字及双方父母的出生年, 月, 日与阴阳五行结合起来, 依据相生相克的原理, 计算双方命理是否相合或相冲.

提亲

获取准新娘及家长，长辈的生辰八字。由男方 连同男女双方的生辰八字，交由算命大师择定 过大礼，安床，上头，迎亲。。。等等的吉时 良辰。

安床(整理床铺)

由'好命人'把新床稍微移动一下, 在新床的四角各置一封红包或缘钱, 象征无限的祝福, 但愿财运亨通, 富贵吉祥. 让小男孩上床跳跃玩乐, 希望新人将来早生贵子, 子孙满堂. 床上还要放一些扁柏, 红枣, 2粒橙, 瓜子, 莲子百合及其他糖果. 先把准新郎的衣服放进衣橱, 然后才放进准新娘的衣服. 分别在衣橱的门, 梳妆镜及房门贴上一个双喜的红纸. 所有桌子, 衣橱的抽屉, 必须放进一包缘钱, 一封红包或扁柏, 象征新人世世代代都丰衣足食.

上头(行成年礼)

通常是在婚礼前一晚举行, 由'好命人'执行. 准新娘必须在准新郎完成仪式后至少一小时才 能进行此仪式. 仪式前, 准新人须以加入柚叶的水沐浴, 换上全新及全白的睡衣, 内衣裤等. 仪式完成后, 准新人都不许站在屋外吸取雾气. 也不可以食用'上头鸡'也不许换其他服装. 下一次换衣, 就是穿婚纱礼服的时候了. 准新人必须食用汤圆, 乘余的汤圆, 将分派给所有的亲朋好友一起分享, 象征互相建立良好人际关系.

送嫁妆

准新娘的母亲将提供的嫁妆如床单等寝具, 新衣服, 1套茶具, 1套床头灯, 1把尺, 1把剪刀, 1面镜子以及一些五色线, 1把红色雨伞, 2把扇子, 2盒粉, 1套衣食碗, 筷子及汤匙, 1双木屐(象征步步高升), 1双家里穿的拖鞋(象征新人的衣装), 1打双喜面巾, 几条手帕, 五谷(象征粮食), '多子福'公仔(象征世世代代儿孙满堂), 火炭(象征新娘过著无忧无虑), 缘钱.

大喜之日 - 出发之前

点香膜拜神明. 妈妈为他穿上大衣. 捧一束花送给新娘. 新郎向爸爸妈妈三鞠躬. 步入事先装饰妥当的轿车, 与兄弟出发.

大喜之日 - 到达目的地

新娘未婚的弟弟'开车门'邀请下车. 新郎回派红包给他作为报酬. 新郎及兄弟在新娘家门外喝茶稍侯, 等待迎接新娘. 新娘的父母将拉下她的头纱, 盖住她的整个脸.

大喜之日 - 迎娶

新郎得通过新娘的姐妹们的考验, 还得经受百般揶揄. 新郎必须大派红包才能赢得美人归. 新人不能够脱鞋, 新娘先向新郎三鞠躬. 把一束襟花结扣在新郎大衣的翻领上. 新郎带著花束赠新娘. 新郎掀开盖著新娘脸的头纱, 亲吻新娘的脸颊. 双方交换结婚戒指, 膜拜神明. 烧猪交去厨房(只取中间部分), 其余的用红纸包好, 连同一件给新郎的裤(称为'女婿裤'), 2粒柑, 2粒苹果及1封红包, 一并送返准新郎的家.

大喜之日 - 奉茶仪式

父亲坐在左侧, 母亲坐在右侧, 新娘首先端茶给爸爸, 妈妈. 新郎随后端茶给岳父母. 爸爸, 妈妈将赠给新人一封红包或一件首饰. 新人奉茶给近宗例如祖父母叔伯, 姨妈姑姐, 兄姐. 长辈将赠给新人一封红包或一件首饰. 新娘的弟妹, 表弟妹轮流奉茶给新人. 新人回赠每人一封红包, 拍摄全家合照.

大喜之日 - 出门

向父母三鞠躬, 表示恩重如山, 亲情深似海. 出门时, 新人应避免踩到门槛. 父亲会用一把红伞遮挡新娘, 母亲则把混合了塥米, 茶叶, 缘钱, 白米, 红豆, 绿豆, 菜籽等的打撒在新婚夫妇身上. 新郎打开车门, 从右侧跨进车里. 新娘随后跟进, 然后去新郎的家. 新人在离开家前, 岳父, 母会赐新郎1碗百合莲子糖水. 新人上车后, 新娘会把手帕丢掉, 像征抛离过往的童稚生涯与脾气, 从此改头换面做个好耐性的贤妻良母. 若新娘还有未娶的兄长, 需在门前挂上1条长裤, 新人从裤下跨出门, 像征他们祝愿新娘的兄长财禄无疆. 新娘是不准吃新郎家中任何的食物, 一般上新娘都会带著装有2包花生, 1粒柑, 2只煮熟的鸡腿和2粒鸡蛋的小餐盒. 新人在离开家前, 岳父, 母会请新郎吃'鸡蛋茶', 新郎不可把它吃完. 新人上车后, 新娘会把旧纸扇丢掉, 换上新的, 像征著跟从夫姓. 携带2支又壮又粗的甘蔗, 连同1个多层的食物盒.

大喜之日 - 进门

未婚弟弟开车门邀请下车. 新郎回派红包给他作为报酬. 进门时, 若新郎还有未娶的兄长, 需在门前挂上1条长裤, 膜拜神明. 新郎的家人在进门的时候, 长辈都不迎接新人. 当新人进门后, 新郎的家人才迎接这对新人. 从女家带来的甘蔗, 分开绑在男家的打门口. 当新人抵达时, 新郎的家人将不迎接新人. 在膜拜神明后, 新人将返回新房, 面朝房门坐在床沿, 新郎在左, 新娘在右, 像征双方平起平坐.

新娘回门

以前新娘出嫁后, 第三天由夫婿陪同返回娘家祭祖, 故称(三朝回门), 亦称'归宁', 需从女家带回甘蔗和带路鸡.

Last year when this bridal shop open at seremban, me n bf signed is RM2788, got discount RM500! Caz new bridal shop got some promotion…hehehe….:- included

 

1. Shooting : 2 wedding gown, 3 dinner gown & 2 costume  ~~ all manage to SVIP or VIP
2. Actual : 1 wedding gown and dinner gown ~~ SVIP or VIP (( for actual day , I didn’t take dinner gown caz I didn’t have dinner , so can change to 1 wedding gown for photo shooting ))
3. Album :1) big 18x24 -30poses + 10MV (50% design, 50% full size) , 2) small 8x12 – 20same poses
4. 24x30” text frame for bed room photo
5. 2 pcs 10x 15” text frame , 1 pcs 24x30” text frame
6. 60 pcs sister photo
7. CDR – 30+10MV, DVD with song
8. 2 gift still not decided
9. ampluse & eyelashes, nail palsu have to pay
10. included seremban outdoor area
11. car deco, hand flower for actual day

 

 

This week will go to bridal shop choosing photo... have to “chose the best “ J dono have to withdrawal how much...or add more photo on the album…. sign…………

on 17/6/08 received a bad news from my bf.. his father pass away le.. ( actualy we all already preparation for this  ..) on last month  his father sakit teruk . my bf very sad.. but anyhow ..still have to face it..as me n bf already plan our wedding ceremoney next year (2009) ,for the hokien custom need to marry within 100days , if not have to wait 3yrs baru can marry...no choice  lor.. have to runs.. when after gao di his " father things", his family said need marry within 100days..can't made it one year later ( as i told to my bf we wait one year later , but can't !! for cantonese, haka.. can one.. but for ho kien can't... ) no choice lor.. honestly.. for that moment really "hate " those " custom" hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii  but we need to follow,  parents ma.. rite?

at last ...my wedding ceremony will be held at chines caleder 15th Aug (14/9/08),  we can't done our wedding in "besar basar" so.. No wedding dinner..just normal things we will don lor..(like buffer, chu men ..got.. ) now have to quikly book the make up, photo shoting, buy furniture, buy " jian juan" ..etc... by the way my regisration date is on 8/8/08 

8/5/08 go to submit form to have my rom dated on 8/8/08...group engagement .....  i think on that day must many people..maybe ... dono... from 8/5/08 untill now..olidi one month..so fast... still not get the shoes, my hubby cloths (mine dress oldii get it)for this event.. flowers..still thinking wat i wan..wat flower i wan.. ???? roses.. ?? daisy?? or?? some friends inro some type flower for me.. ...emmmm.... nvm..still have two months..

 

From booking a house .. loan approved from PBB.. , this housing is ready. So , me n my honey no need to wait so long duration .. just waiting the CF out only..  get the key from developer… from June until now.. waiting developer do the defect matter such as crack line , leaking etc. Around two months..  finally done the defect matter.

 

Within November, we busy searching the quotation for the kitchen part, window drill and door drill. Those necessaries works have to be done. Now , end of November, finally start the small renovation part. After this , have to looking some lighting, furniture, electrical item.. and etc.. tired … really hope that can quickly finis and move in !! J